05 November 2009

cause and effect

Years ago, when E was a newborn, there was a popular line of baby clothes with pictures from Eric Carle's "The Very Hungry Caterpillar". Just like the current line of pink and brown mix-and-match separates with bears and "Daddy Loves Me" embroidery that is infused into the new baby's wardrobe, those very tiny, very hungry caterpillars marched across E's sleepers, her bibs, several onesies, and even a tiny little hat with a tiny little tassel that fit her not-so-tiny little head for about eleven seconds. She also received a stuffed caterpillar with purple antennae and little stuffed brown feet and those characteristic large eyes straight out of the book. A friend of hers who was born about ten weeks before her, received the same caterpillar wardrobe that every baby born the summer of 2003 did, and the same stuffed caterpillar was stuck into his car seat and his stroller and his crib with him - just like E. The difference was that while E enjoyed her caterpillar immensely when she found herself in the company of him, her buddy just couldn't live without him - carrying him everywhere, sleeping with him, and loving all the fuzziness and color off of him in a "Velveteen Rabbit" sort of way. Their love affair ended abruptly one day when his caterpillar (ba-boo, I believe was his name) came up missing. By this time the caterpillar trend was waning, and newer lines of must-have baby clothes were in the big box stores, and that particular caterpillar was just nowhere to be found. Ebay searches produced nothing, every substitute caterpillar was purchased - caterpillar rattles and music boxes, thin ones, fat ones, miniature sized ones and oversized ones - but alas, none were just exactly right. So he asked E (in his kindest nearly three year old way) if he could have hers - the only one exactly like his lost ba-boo, and in return he'd give her the pick of all his substitutes. The two met, she shopped the alternatives, and finally selected the version that had obviously eaten through the smorgasbord and was nearing cocoon status. Oh - and it also sported a music box. Her friend was happy (and sleeping again) and E was ecstatic at her "trade up" and they moved on with their own green segmented friends.

E and her buddy I with the first ba-boo

Now he's back out again - the fancy version with the music, and the new baby is as smitten with it as E's friend was with his ba-boo. Ours hangs above the changing table, and she began by staring quizzically at him, then attempting to swat him, to her current attachment to grabbing fast and holding tight. Just the other night she started showing signs of understanding cause and effect. She knows that I grab it and pull down to make it play - her version is the much more spirited attempt to shake the living daylights out of him and make him cry for mercy. Either way, it's pretty effective. She's smitten. If she starts calling him ba-boo though, we're in trouble...

technical difficulties

Trying to get a video to post to no avail. I'll try again tonight. Hope the week is going well for all of you.

02 November 2009

yellow in the garden
















01 November 2009

"the handsome vampire"

For the past four years the whole family has worked together to make E's Halloween costumes - some were based on books, or favorite toys, or - in the case of last year - a favorite event that comes right before Halloween. This year she announced early that she wanted to be a robber - a costume that in her description was made up of a black shirt, black pants, black shoes and a hat with a light on it. We tried to get her to glam it up a bit - maybe she could be an international jewel thief and have a sack spilling over with costume jewelry, or perhaps an art thief with the Mona Lisa in her back pocket - but she shook her head "no" to all those suggestions and insisted on the all-black ensemble. Seemed kind of boring, and we told her that no one would even know she was there in the dark as she went from door to door. "Precisely the point," she said and left it at that.
So we were pleasantly surprised when she changed her mind and decided to be a vampire. But not just any vampire - a handsome vampire. She chose her costume carefully for its vest color and necklace style. When she tried it on at home she admired herself in the mirror and said "I knew it would be nice, but I didn't realize just how handsome it would be." She asked for full makeup. She asked for fake teeth. She asked if she could wear it to church. "Without the cape, of course." (She didn't.)
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Maybe next year we'll go back to the handmade costumes, and maybe not. It was definitely a great Halloween with lots of happy, candy-filled friends, a relatively happy hot dog, and a very happy - I mean handsome - vampire.